skip to Main Content
Dementia And Depression

Suffering from Dementia and Depression – How to Get Help

On the surface, David seems like he is doing fine. He has been married for 42 years, retired for seven years, has three children, six grandchildren, a dog named Skip, and likes to golf on Tuesday mornings. David was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s Disease two years ago, however, and things are changing. David is noticing the changes, and he’s hoping that other people don’t notice.

David has more trouble keeping track of his location on the golf course and finds himself forgetting names and appointments during the week. These changes, and the feelings of shame associated with them, have had a negative effect on David’s mood. He has become more irritable, has started to avoid social events and friends, and has lost interest in activities he used to enjoy.


Depression is a common and sometimes serious condition resulting in a depressed mood, a loss of interest in activities, and feelings of sadness. Depression can be mild or severe and can last months or years. Depression tends to be a persistent problem, caused by complex factors related to biological, physiological, or social sources of distress or imbalance. Commonly, depression will affect a person’s sleep, energy level, appetite, and may include thoughts of suicide.

People who are depressed often feel that they will never get better, and nothing can help them. Feelings of sadness, loss or anger are typical, and irritability is a common symptom. Depression also changes brain chemistry and alters activity in certain neural circuits in the brain.


For David, his depression may be related to his diagnosis of memory loss. Feelings of fear, loss of control, anticipating the worst, and fears of shame, judgment, and withdrawing from social support can all contribute to feeling down. In addition, increased stress contributes to both the memory loss worsening, and the depression itself. Depression can be a vicious cycle of feeling low and avoiding support. It’s well documented that depression is a risk factor for memory loss, and memory loss is a risk factor for depression. Treating depression is an important step to keeping memories and improving the quality of life and mood for people with memory loss.


At the Mind & Memory Program at Mission Hospital, David can find ways to help de-stress, cope, and stay mentally and physically active. With a healthcare program personally tailored for him, he can participate in group therapy and improve his mood and social relationships in a supportive environment.

Offered on an outpatient basis on the Mission Viejo campus of Mission Hospital in Southern California, the Mind & Memory Program provides a structured program of therapy. The first of its kind in the country, this program is designed to address the special needs of individuals with memory concerns who in addition suffer from some type of mental health issue, such as dementia and depression, PTSD and dementia and bipolar disorder and memory loss. For more information or to schedule a pre-screening appointment, please call (949) 364-4203 or visit our website.

This post was written by Cheryl Alvarez, Psy.D and was featured in the January 2019 issue of Sorbet Magazine.
Dr. Cheryl Alvarez is a licensed Clinical Psychologist, and Program Director at Mind & Memory Program, which was launched in partnership with Mission Hospital and is the first of its kind in the nation. She holds a Master’s and Doctoral degree in Clinical Psychology from the American School of Professional Psychology at Argosy University. Dr. Alvarez is passionate about working with the patients and caregivers to improve their health and increase their quality of life.

Back To Top
×Close search